lol. i sumhow know harry would hate me for blogging this, but.. Well.. Sumthing I realised.. Your best friend becoming your leader is.. really not easy to adapt. Especially for an egoistic, prideful guy like me. Mmm.. Know it sounds cliche with all the its okay, i will submit, nothing will come between our friendship, etc etc.. But.. there are problems beyond just the surface.

There are many things which.. you can't share to your buddy, like ministry.. (can you imagine if he shares to you about his group, which is you and suddenly you hear a lot of things you're not supposed 2 hear and you die in shock?) What about personal life? Mmm.. For some, personal life IS ministry. all the problems would concern their group, their people.

Yet on the other hand, when ur bud corrects you, sometimes.. u really wonder if he's talking to you as a leader or as a buddy. Well.. to some people, there's no difference but to others there is. Different styles of leadership I guess. Some people are different as a leader and as a friend. *shrug*

And there's a lot more.. Sometimes you wonder if he's treating you well because u're under him, or because u guys are really buddies. I for one really do not want someone to treat me better because i'm in that person's group. That makes me feel so... used?

Mmm.. I do think about such issues man. But thank God. I have a.. super-duper gd best friend. Thanks for.. just treating me as a buddy, sharing with me and all, not doing special things, and just being who we were in the past. For people who face the same problem, really turn t Harry as your role model (the ldr part. for egoistic people UNDER your best friend, turn t God. Only HE CAN HELP. muahaha) Thanx bud. We can overcome the world together. =)

tata.~ Gonna go Sam's hse t watch e Man U match.

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